1. The actual wipe is fairly quick, a few minutes. The OS reload could take 20-30 minutes or longer.
2. 4.5 would be fine.
3. Don't know what is exactly wrong, but it sounds like you could have a faulty LED screen?
4. You could probably get a local BB geek to do it for you, if you buy the parts.
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