[Joe S.]

in my blackberry messenger when i add a friend and they accept, it wont add them to my contact list. they stay in pending. what can i do so i can message them? i have removed the battery and rebooted...

[Jadey]

I'm having this problem currently on a Bold. Very annoying.

[Jadey]

This seems currently specific to one user. If she sends me a BBM request, and I click accept, we just stay in each other's "pending" queue.

If I send her a BBM invitation, she does not even see it.

This is sending all via PIN numbers.

I tried sending her a PIN message, and it is not delivered. PIN messages to existing BBM contacts work fine.